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Monday, March 26, 2012

The American Dream's Not Dead, Just Different

ByRashiid K Coleman

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The "American Dream" is a mantra, an ideal, a national ethos in which the citizens of this great country believe they have an equal opportunity for liberty, prosperity, and success. It is founded upon the bedrock of the United States Declaration of Independence, that declares "all men are created equal", and that they are "endowed by their Creator with inalienable rights" including life, liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness.

Don't worry! I'm not writing to give a lesson on American history. However, I felt it necessary to address the single, most important reason Americans think the way we do about the context of our lives in this country. Our American sub-cultures are, in part, the derivations of this mindset that our lives should be better, fuller, richer, and all without restriction from government or others.

We have been softly or subliminally programmed from our youth to embrace certain images of success and freedom. You know, we should strive to have a house, with a white, picket fence, two cars, and two children. The dream extends to our hobbies and past times, the types of social affiliations we should belong to, or not, but all in the service of our attaining the "American Dream." Many seek the proverbial carrot of the "American Dream" whether we do so consciously, sub-consciously, or unconsciously. As Americans this ethos is hardwired into the very framework of each aspect of our lives.

The means by which Americans were taught they could have or achieve such a dream was simple in a seemingly distant past. We were taught to go to school, get good grades, work hard, go to college, then get a good, secure job with great benefits. Upon checking this off of our mental checklist, we were then expected to stay on that job, with that company or employer for 40+ years and retire from that job to receive a guaranteed pension until we later expired.

In comes the drama, the tension, the conflict! While this approach to life in America was reasonable for our predecessors, innovating the industrial revolution, leaving their family farms for the allure of jobs in huge factories, it makes little to no sense for all of us in this America Nuevo. America, in its post-modernity, is presented with a most interesting dilemma. Do we change and evolve with the times, or do we ignore the rapidly changing landscape of our business, economical, and financial realities?

In December, 2007 the country slid into one of the worst recessionary periods since the Great Depression, according to experts. This was no spontaneous event! The experts weren't surprised at its unfolding. There were many benchmarks that were trending in ways to reveal a dynamic financial and economic down turn was under way.

This recession was building as the housing market was at an all-time high. Seekers of the "American Dream" were realizing fulfillment. They were making billions by way of "aiding" Americans secure one aspect of the "DREAM", owning a house. Well, the housing market began to experience a huge decline between 2006 and 2007, and the housing bubble actually burst in December, 2008 according to experts.

When this occurred, the "American Dream" turned into an "American Nightmare." Millions of overzealous Americans and their families were rocked by the collapse of the housing markets. Home owners were devastated as they were turned upside down in their mortgages. Banks were failing at an incredible rate, and they were calling out for government aid. We were in the midst of an administration change, and there's absolutely nothing worse than crisis amidst transition. As all of these events converged they seemed to combine to create a figurative Molotov cocktail, and businesses, banks, and households were scorched as a result.

The aftermath or wake of the crash played out in layoffs of over 100,000 American citizens, the closing of many small businesses, the devaluation of major banks and corporations, the closing of large and small banks, the economic decimation of entire towns or cities, the unemployment rate rising to over 10%, and the American confidence being shattered. Credit markets froze as people were afraid to spend in fear they may be next on the chopping block. American cynicism rose, and middle-class American families were devastated as they had their lives redefined in a flash.

Many would believe the "American Dream" is dead. Many would estimate America has taken a turn for the worst and cannot or will not totally recover. Well, if America attempts to maintain her former ideals then we may be in for some real trouble. If we hold onto the philosophies that made our country great forty or fifty years ago hope might be lost. But, if we're willing to redefine ourselves, our culture, our sub-cultures and embrace the new context thrust upon us by head-spinning change, we'll come out of this differently but stronger.

The "American Dream" is just different. I'm amazed at how many Americans have chosen to follow the paths that are crumbling before them. People are going back to school to make themselves more valuable in the market place. While I certainly applaud their drive to achieve and grow, it's simply a move in the same direction. Not to mention, many of the people going back to school are in classes with kids half their age, and they'll be competing with them in the shrinking job markets. People are surprisingly still looking for jobs and they're forced to accept jobs far below their worth or former income margins. All this is happening because we're blind to the new reality, the "New Deal."

It's time for Americans to gather ourselves, come to our senses, and instead of just looking for another job that will put you back in the situation you were just in, look for a real "opportunity." Opportunities are plenteous! Opportunities are all around. You just have to be looking for one that fits you and for what you have passion. The United States unemployment rate, although dropping, is still at over 8%. Our government and the experts are constantly talking about job creation. Doesn't that seem like a sign we need to make a change?

The "American Dream" is different in that you can't rely or depend on something or someone else to provide you the realization of life, liberty, or your pursuit of happiness. Unscrupulous company executives spend pension funds now. Greedy business owners lay off hard-working, loyal employees to fatten their bottom lines, and jobs are scarce. It takes more than one job, in many instances, just to make ends meet. Former VP's and upper management have gone from earning six figure incomes to delivering pizzas to keep food on the table.

So if you're still hopeful for and desirous of realizing the "American Dream" you still can. But, open your eyes, your mind, and your heart to realize you won't have it the old, conventional way. You must look for your opportunity, and you must seize it when you find it. Don't let anything or anyone stand in your way. Resist the temptation to fall back on the familiar. The familiar is no longer what it was! To have the dream and have time to be able to enjoy it you'll have to look for a way to start and own your own business. You will have to develop an entrepreneurial spirit. You'll have to look for ways to service the needs of as many people as you can. You have to become your own boss!

So, it's time for you to clearly identify your dream life. It's time to alter your disposition so you can drastically change your position. It's time for you to get unstuck from the rut developed from many years of doing the same thing, the same way. It's been said, "A rut is nothing more than a grave with the ends kicked out." It's time to feel alive again! It's time to reignite the fires of excitement and joy in your life. It's time for you to commit to working your full-time job, if you still have one, while you work part-time on your fortune. It's time to start your own business, to set your schedule, to remove all limits on your income, and to realize the fullest expression of your worth.

If you're interested in reclaiming your power over your future, if you're ready for a radical change, if you're ready to free yourself from the grips of the "American Nightmare" you can contact me using the information provided below. I'll be waiting for you on the other side.

If you're ready to live the most incredible life you could imagine, a life fit for royalty. Contact me at rashiidkcoleman@4regalliving.com or 484-693-1616. http://www.4regalliving.com

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Wednesday, February 22, 2012

A Different Kind of Black Friday

ByBenji Battle

Black Friday came and went, and here's what I did not do:

I did not enter a store in the wee hours of the night (morning?) and stand in line with zombies with plastic money and pepper spray in their pockets.

For me, the day after Thanksgiving was truly Black Friday because it was lights out! I went to...and stayed in...my king size bed.

At midnight, I was under covers (with a computer in my lap). After the 3500+ calories I ate, all I wanted to do was sleep.

So by 1 AM, I was out. At 2 AM? Blackness. At 4 AM? The opaque, non-color state of non-consciousness. At 6 AM, I may have opened an eyelid, blinking in the light turned on by a certain spouse who did make the choice I made and just stay in bed with me. But a few seconds later? Blackness...

Man, this Black Friday stuff is outstanding!

I say this like it was easy for me to avoid the stores this November. If this was last year, it would be a different story today. I would be writing about me getting up at 4 AM so that I could drive twelve miles and be half-asleep in a door-buster line at your local Wal-Mart at 5 AM. You see, I was on a mission from Santa Mom: My task was to score my son an iPod Touch with a free $50 Wal-Mart card for $225 (I got it by the way).

I have to admit, it was exciting...and stressful. I was probably the 6th or 7th person in line for the thing, and I heard the cashier whisper up front that there were, like, 12 of them for sale with that price. I was fist pumping my good fortune and beginning to wake up and enjoy this experience, but then I heard the following words from the first lady in line: "I want three..."

Talk about crapping on my Christmas spirit! There's got to be a special place in hell for people in a door-buster line who buy three of something when there are only twelve. It's just got to be against some rule in Leviticus somewhere. But I digress.

The point is, I was mighty tempted this year. I couldn't go to bed last night without thinking that I, as a member of the human club, was going to miss out on a required ritual. It would be like skipping a good ol' fashioned Western hangin', and I would be the only one who didn't have a story to tell about the poor guy's last words and leg twitching.

And I have to give it to the retail industry. It's just brilliant. The consortium of Wal-Mart, Best Buy, Target, and Macy's have created a cultural phenomenon that utilizes mind control waves that radiate from little boxes in our living rooms and offices. These malicious, hypnotizing signals haunt us with subliminal repetition:

"Spend hundreds of dollars on Black Friday or you will go to hellllllllllll...."

And so we all rise slowly from our slumber. We shuffle awkwardly in a daze to our cars. We then land in a parking lot in a mass of mindless bodies, and we move as one organism toward the light behind the glass doors.

But I am glad I didn't this year. Instead, I am enjoying my second cup of black coffee in my black chair typing on my black keyboard after a good 8 hours of blackness. And my bank account is...you guessed it...in the black.

Benji Battle lives and works as an educator, manager, and writer in Atlanta, GA, where he and his wife work daily to make a wiser, brighter home for their three children. Benji encourages people to ask more questions in life in order to achieve their goals and dreams. His blog "Think to Ask?" celebrates these questions at http://www.benjibattle.com

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Sunday, February 19, 2012

What Are Different Components of an Online Business Directory

   by IRFANin News / Business News    (submitted 2012-02-15)

Online directories are a newer version of our traditional yellow pages so they are actually based on the concept of yellow pages but having said that, online directories have many more components that make them far better when compared to the printed ones.


Online directories are being used now days for local businesses especially where business owners list their business and people search their required services and products on good directories and contact the businesses.


There are two basic types of directories:


Online directories are being used now days for local businesses especially where business owners list their business and people search their required services and products on good directories and contact the businesses.


There are two basic types of directories:


1. B2C business directory


2. B2B directory


Although they do have some difference amongst them but their basic components remain the same and are shared by both of the types. In order for you to effectively use a business directory for your business you need to know about their basic components or the most promising components. Here they are:


Trade Leads


Trade leads are by far the most attractive component of an online business directory. Trade leads would mean the space in the directory for posting. The good thing about them is that both buyers and sellers can post trade leads in a b2b directory. Buyer leads will be posted by users who wish to purchase specific items or products. They will post their lead and the seller can contact them. Similarly sellers will post their sell leads at these directories.


Product Catalogs


Online business directories have unlimited space for products. Sellers can post their product details which the buyers can browse through. Unlike the printed business directory, online directories have unlimited space for any sellers products so they can add as much as they want, while printed directories have only a small space available.


Search Tools


The one reason online directories are very easy to use is the search tools that are available. All you need to do is enter the product you require and you will get it on your screen within seconds. Imagine how difficult it could be to search for a particular product in a printed directory with a thousand pages.


Finally, online business directory provide great support to both buyers and sellers. Online business directories can bridge the gap between buyers and sellers and can make your business grow quickly.

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Sunday, February 5, 2012

Different Process of getting a Car Loan

   by IRFANin News / Business News    (submitted 2012-01-24)

Buying yourself a brand new car is an exciting experience all the time, weather it is your first car or one of the many you have purchased. However, under the current economic situation it is not easy for you to purchase a brand new car or even at times a used one totally on cash and many of you need to arrange for car loans.



Buying yourself a brand new car is an exciting experience all the time, weather it is your first car or one of the many you have purchased. However, under the current economic situation it is not easy for you to purchase a brand new car or even at times a used one totally on cash and many of you need to arrange for car loans.




While going for a car loan or car financing there are many aspects which you need to keep in mind, the most important one being if you have bad credit ratings or not. How much is the total cost or the car and do you have any finances available with your or not.



Looking for a car loan can be a good experience for some, while for a few people it gets very difficult to acquire a car loan. Some people just cannot handle the wait and the process and get impatient. Most of the people prefer acquiring car loan from institutions where the process is simple, stress free and fast. Not to forget the most important part, how much interest you are required to pay.



The process of getting loan for a car starts with first setting a specific loan rate and getting it approved. The institution that you applied to (for example a bank) will ask you for documents and will look into it. Your personal information, credit rating, income etc… will be looked at.



After getting all these information accepted, you will now deal with settling the number of years that you want financing for, the down payment that you have arranged and what benefits will you gets if you are consistent with your monthly installments.



This process however cannot be the same for every customer, as everyone has a different income, different background and different liabilities which will impact your car loan financing in terms of approval and interest rate at times as well.



Some customers later complain about the financial institutions of imposing heavy fines and hidden chargers so it is always advisable that you look into the background of the company before you commit. Using your local business directories to know more about the institution before you go for a car loan is a much easier way to know what you are stepping into.


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